Monday, March 6, 2023

What Narcissists Do When You Are Strong

What do narcissists do when they see you are too strong for them? When the narcissist sees you're too strong, they will begin to see you as a threat.,they will become envious and jealous of you. They will criticise you and put you down. At the same time, the narcissist will pretend that they care about you, they will help and support you so that you know you can rely on them and trust them, and they do this only to take it all from you, betray you and leave you defenseless. When the narcissist sees that you are a strong person, they will play the victim, they will be dishonest, they will act as if you did something bad to them. The narcissist will also provoke you to react to their behavior. They will say and do things that they know will annoy you until you can't take it anymore and you'll explode. A narcissist will compare you to others, they will do anything to make you feel jealous, they will put you down and do anything to make you feel like nothing. They will do everything to make you react to their behavior so that you finally can't stand it and fall into a rage. The narcissist hopes that you will lash out and that you will defend yourself when they attack you because it fuels them, it makes the narcissist feel alive. Because now you're acting like someone who's crazy, just like them. They feel that they are not alone and you are in the same boat. Once they get what they want from you, have made you react to their behavior and brought you down to their level, they will feel powerful and in control. That will then point the finger at you and blame you for something you did not do. The Narcissist will make you feel guilty for reacting to their behavior. Therefore, even if you are a strong person, you must be aware of these tricks. The narcissist will play the victim, hoping you will feel bad for your defensive behavior and apologize and make amends for what he has convinced you that you did wrong. The narcissist won't let it go. The narcissist likes to bring up things from the past. So he'll keep it in his back pocket to use against you later. Now the narcissist has the evidence to discredit you, to show others that you have a history of destructive and violent behavior, to mark you as a criminal. make you look like the bad person. when the truth is that it's all one big lie. The narcissist took advantage of your feelings and turned you against yourself. He pushed and provoked you until you had enough, you couldn't take it anymore and you exploded and the narcissist sat back and observed your reaction. The narcissist manipulated your emotions until you finally lashed out and then he made you feel guilty, made you feel bad about yourself when the narcissist made himself a victim.

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