Today in History

Today in History
1864
November 21
*President Lincoln Allegedly Writes to Mother of Civil War Casualties

Legend holds that on November 21, 1864, President Abraham Lincoln composes a letter to Lydia Bixby, a widow and mother of five men who had been killed in the Civil War. A copy of the letter was then published in the Boston Evening Transcript on November 25 and signed “Abraham Lincoln.” The original letter has never been found.

The letter expressed condolences to Mrs. Bixby on the death of her five sons, who had fought to preserve the Union in the Civil War. The author regrets how “weak and fruitless must be any words of mine which should attempt to beguile you from the grief of a loss so overwhelming.”

He continued with a prayer that “our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement [and leave you] the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours, to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of Freedom.”

Scholars continue to debate the authorship of the letter, and the authenticity of copies printed between 1864 and 1891. At the time, copies of presidential messages were often published and sold as souvenirs.

Some historians and archivists believe that the original letter was probably written by Lincoln’s secretary, John Hay.

As to Mrs. Bixby’s loss, scholars have discovered that in reality, two of her sons actually died fighting during the Civil War (which is still a grievous loss). A third was honorably discharged and a fourth was dishonorably thrown out of the Army.

The fifth son’s fate is unknown, but it is assumed that he deserted or died in a Confederate prison camp.

Despite its dubious origins, the letter’s text became even more famous when it was quoted in Steven Spielberg’s World War II film epic Saving Private Ryan (1998).

*This sounds like something President Lincoln would have done. His grief at the loss of his own sons made him empathetic to the grief of others and his heart broke at the casualties on both sides of the American conflict.