Dear and Precious Child

Dear and Precious Child... by Jorrie Varney

There’s something special about the bond between a mother and her child. Mothers counsel their children, and– as the years pass– they also have the unique ability to become their confidantes and friends.

Often, mom’s find themselves (consciously or unconsciously) pushing their offspring to be just like them. But one mom, a registered nurse and blogger Jorrie Varney, wants just the opposite. Read her letter, “Dear Child : I Hope Your Journey Will Be Different From Mine”

I have been waiting for you.

Since I was a little girl toting around a baby doll, I have been practicing to be your mommy. I have dreamed about reading you bedtime stories and tucking you in.

Your perfect eyes and warm smile -- I’ve pictured them in my mind countless times. I’ve hoped for the special connection that would bond us together, unshakably. That we would find the perfect balance between parent and child and parent and friend.

I want to be the one who knows your secrets, and your dreams, and your fears. I worry about the rough times, when you will discover that everyone isn’t your friend and some people are unnecessarily cruel.

I want to protect you from the evil in the world, but also prepare you for it.

I hope I can be the mother who teaches you kindness, patience, and forgiveness. I pray you will embrace the salvation our Jesus has set before you, but in addition to that, I hope you are nothing like me.

I don’t want you to struggle to find yourself, as I did. I want you to be confident in who you are, and in the love and support you have from your family and from your faith.

I hope you never feel the sting of being different, but rather embrace your differences, knowing they are what make you unique and beautiful and allow you to grow.

Do not let your experiences harden you. Use them to gain insight and empathy; you will learn compassion as a result.

I hope your tongue is not sharp or cruel when you are angry. Please do not let your emotions overpower your ability to remain kind.

I want you to be strong and stay grounded in what you know is right and true. If you must stray from the crowd to remain true to your values, I hope you are courageous enough to do so.

I hope your heart is open, and you are able to trust. Please don’t let your insecurities impede your path, and don’t cling to the comforts of what you know. Be bold and explore your curiosities.

Embrace failure as a necessity of growth. Do not fear it; it will teach you the greatest lessons of all.

I know you will find your way, and I wish it were possible that you never experience pain or sorrow, but you must. It will shape you in a positive way, if you let it.

You will stumble and fall and, no doubt, be discouraged at times, but you will stand up, dust yourself off, and take another step, because you are strong.

Your life is your path to walk. I can’t do it for you, and I don’t want to, but I pray you don’t make the mistakes I have made.

Yet, no matter your journey, I will support you every step of the way, because…You are beautiful. You are amazing. You are perfect and YOU ARE MY BELOVED CHILD.